This is the story of my fight against vaginismus for 30 years. I think you can be your best adviser. You don’t need to buy expensive dilators or seek many therapists. I don’t mean to say they’re useless but you must take the first step by yourself. In this book you’ll learn the keys that helped me to work it out. I won’t focus on the intercourse, I’ll help you train the elasticity of your vagina instead. I recommend this book to all women, even to all men: let’s know our own bodies better, you should know your partner’s body better. If you can control your vaginal elasticity, your sexual life will improve. This is the book your therapist might not want you to read, but you have to judge for yourself who can help you better: an expert looking at the problem from the outside or a victim who knows how you feel. Maria Gonzalez is a Spanish woman who overcame vaginismus for herself. In this book she speaks to you, from woman to woman, like a friend, not like a cold therapist.